"All he wanted was for you to look at him the way you look at your kid."
With love, complicity, trust & support. With that sense of knowing that no matter what, whatever she does, says or loves, you will stand by her.
All the masculine wants is for the feminine to test the waters with him.
He years for that partnership of Queen and King- a solid team, a corresponded partnership.
But the female rejected him.
Too worried that her kid would miss out, that she would have to go through what she went through and experience it tough.
He deserved better, he did. Compassion, mutual respect, understanding and love.
Instead the feminine is tough with him. Cold, disrespectful and full of boast. Boast for your kids, never for him.
For so long women have used men as their scapegoat, making fun of them in front of their peers, his mates, colleagues and family.
They say the masculine is too forthcoming, aggressive, violent even. The thing is, the feminine has not been able to harness the power of its King.
No wonder men display that aggressive side. All the masculine wants is intimacy with the love of their life.
But, for a long time, society has shown the feminine doesn’t care about him!
She rejects him and chooses her baby kid.
She is too scared that she will pass down onto her kin what she was not able to deal with.
And so she puts him aside- her King, her masculine side.
Why do we do that? Blame the masculine side, that is.
He too is receptive, intuitive and energetically tuned in. He too receives the subtle messages that the feminine sends to him. That of mistrust, unfaithfulness, disloyalty, conditioned love.
Words don’t mean anything for a male who senses energy. A rotten reign fights against the essence of the male.
Women have put kids before the male's emotions, her and herself before his own needs.
And then they blame the man for being standoffish, violent, distant or a selfish kid.
What will she do know? The Queen, that is, when faced with a grown adult man and not a kid?
Will the feminine be open to him, trust him and show him he is her King?
Will she be honest and show him respect? Will she apologize for treating him with mere content? For showing him something different to what she was preaching to the world?
In essence she and the kids are well and fine.
But he isn’t.
He is hurt and damaged, hence why some take it to the extreme of taking their lives.
The pain and suffering of separation and having been rejected by his own kids cuts deeper than what the female can understand.
Here is to the ladies- those self-righteous feminist females who put the male down and accuse him of being tough, aloof, cold and nonchalant.
Here is to the males who suffer because of this lack of trust and respect from the one who is supposed to be his equal in a reign of king and queen.
I hope you ladies and feminine men are enjoying your me-time. Know the male is hurting and this side of us has a big role in it.
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