Divine
"It is sad that men retreat out of fear of failure." Nostraamandamus
I have seen it. Countless times. They tell me about it. They open up.
They did not want to be that kind of dad (or manly mum), but they ended up being it.
They were so scared, so terrified of failing, that they didn’t even try.
They searched for external praise & validation in the workplace. Somewhere where they felt they could fit in, find their worth, feel cherished, loved and have a place.
They let the mum (or the feminine dad) do the work at home, raising the kids and having all the control and then became so enthralled in their own little world- going to work and being the provider, that they forgot what this all was about.
This was all about providing for the FAMILY and without a male side, there is no FAMILY.
The feminine can provide a home, but without the masculine, there is no space for it to grow and evolve.
Each complements each other.
The masculine is needed. In everyone of us and in every family.
SOCIETY NEEDS THE MALE NOW MORE THAN EVER.
You male, are needed NOW more than ever before.
Because there is now consciousness, there is awareness, there are the vitality, skills, options and possibilities for us to be the richer, wiser, more conscious version of ourselves.
When we did what we did we did not know otherwise, but now we do.
Now we do know, consciously aware, that following the same old path will take us to the same old path.
As simple as that.
So, if you feel hurt, if you feel vulnerable, angry, lonely, sad or depressed, know you can count on others to help you get out of that state.
Because we are all in it together.
And ultimately, the purpose of the male is to help raise the next gem. The next generation, the next kin.
Without him we are no one.
Females, do yourself a favour and let your man in. He is your king and if he is not, make him be part of his Kingdom. Look within and find the strength to step down, to lose control and to trust in another being and his God-sent wisdom & love.
Gentlemen, YOU are worthy, you are valuable and you are ACCOUNTABLE. Accountable for your own kind and unkind deeds, consequences, actions and means.
No, she will not be there for you all the time to make your bed or sweep you up.
No, she will not save you.
No, the feminine is not there to mother or smother you.
She is there to support you as much as you are there for her too.
In this collaboration, this conscious co-creation, the feminine needs to step aside, outside of the borders and boundaries that society set for her and straighten up.
She needs to relinquish control, she needs to let the guy be the God.
And she must raise in consciousness to be the best she can be.
First, she ought to find this strength within. Facing her own masculine side & making amends and peace with it.
Why?
Because, I repeat, we are all in this together.
No matter how many wars between the male and female there are. No matter how much men and women think they are better than the other gender, if we don’t unite fronts we won’t make it to the end line.
We will still be faking it.
And just remember, this is a journey and not a destination.
Join, commute, collaborate and feel good.
Men, masculine girls, stop retreating, this is YOUR TIME.
IT IS THE TIME FOR THE MASCULINE TO RISE.
No more escaping, retreating or taking.
STAND & DELIVER.
Be the awesome father, the imperfect practical mother, the male figure that is so needed for the wiser man.
No young adults or little kids will become the best version of who they are if we don’t have men who are accountable, men become Kings, who step up and lift each other up.
It is time.
Time for you to raise.
Time for the female to step down and learn her place.
There is no space for the feminine if the masculine is not there and no role for the masculine if the feminine does not step away.
Whether you are a woman who stands in her masculine power, a feminist who has taken control of her man’s struggle or a man who is in search for his own inner male warrant, if you resonate with this, give me a thumbs up.
If you are in your masculine energy, you know what to do.
If you are driven and controlled by your feminine traits, then, step the hell down!
Let the man be the man and let women raise to their tasks. That is to their Divine Assignment, to following God’s Path.
Open to any questions and suggestions and eager to hear about your thoughts.
In kindness and conscious awareness.
Much love,
A.
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