“If you think that way, you are broken” he used to say to me in his self-righteous judgmental way.
So much for allowing another to have freedom of speech and to create a safe space for the other to understand their limitations, expand their perspective and broaden their knowledge…
Did I mention he was a counsellor?
He did know how to create a safe space for others to vent, release, gain knowledge and understanding about themselves but blatantly denied it to me.
Even when I asked, curiously wanting to know about his perspective, he would simply shut down, letting me unanswered, unworthy and unresolved.
Let it go, let it go, let it go!!!
Resentment only gets built inwardly. But it does affect relationships.
When there is no freedom of say, no safe space to question or vent, people distance themselves and feel the other person’s unapproachable state.
I have had enough!
Not everything was my fault!
If you too can relate, tired of feeling this way in your romantic relationship, reach out!
I might be able to help you out!
Much love,
A.
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